The raw truth is that all excuses for rape are inexcusable. Some are just more elaborately crafted to make them seem like they aren't designed to let rapists get away with rape while rape victims just happen to take the blame.
Excusing rape is not only a terrible thing to do, it taints who you are as a person. You may tell people you are a moral person, but if you excuse certain rapes you are showing people that you are only selectively moral at best.
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