This question was used in a search which brought someone to my blog.
Not only could a guy that will not take no for an answer be a rapist, if that guy succeeds at ignoring a response of no, he is unquestionably a rapist. That truth isn't nullified by a lack of report or by a lack of a rape conviction.
The only time he isn't a rapist is when he gets an immediate and enthusiastic yes.
Those who disagree are supporting those who have chosen to be sexual predators and they are answering the question about why date rape is so common.