Those who work with this man may have no clue that he holds all these toxic beliefs. If they are aware of some of his resentments toward feminists they may not see how this resentment is directly linked to rape.
Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "Anti-Feminism And Rape":
Wanting to stop rape is not man hating but blaming all men for rape is.Break out the violins for this self-inflicted pity party.
What is rape? Is it just a man forcing himself upon a woman to gain entry to her sex? Or is it the attempt of those with NO reproductive rights to seize reproduction from those with a reproductive monopoly?
There was a time when men could work hard and expect his efforts to attract a wife. But now we must work even harder to compete against women in order to have mate value to attract those same women. And even then our efforts are taken for granted. (And when men compete and make more money it's called sexism and the wage gap is denounced!) And those men who fail to climb the employment hierarchy fall to the bottom and find love and affection from women a scarce commodity at best.
Women claim they want equality but that is a lie. They wanted the vote but simultaneously they wanted to prevent poor men from voting. Remember it was "Universal Sufferage" not just "Women's Sufferage". And also women didn't want to be forced to become military slaves the way men were forced. So much for "Equal rights, nothing more, nothing less." Every young man who is forced to sign up for Selective Service (The Draft) realizes in his heart that his life is not his own and that at a whim the government can take his freedom and expend his life to pursue some political end for the benefit of others--who incidentally will be mostly women.
We live in a society where women have nearly unlimited sexual freedom and expression. They can wear their clothing as scantily as they want and act as scandalously as they please. And they believe they should have the right to do so and be free from rape. That sentiment is the same as saying "I have a right to dangle raw meat before tigers and not have one of them jump up and snatch it from me and my arm with it." And not only that but to presume the tiger is the unjust one for being driven to it by frustration and hunger.
Finally, feminism is patriarchy. It is the desire of women to be privileged by men. Only now women have chosen the federal government as their "uber father" to protect them and provide for them. But as always it is men who pay for everything. We pay with our taxes, with our lives, with broken hearts, and our freedom.
Rape laws and anti-discrimination laws are not about having an "uber father" any more than murder laws and food safety laws are about having an "uber father."
How horrid we women are for wanting the ability to live our lives without men feeling like they have the right to rape us because we don't behave as they want us to behave. How horrid we women are for presuming rapists are the unjust ones.
The fundamental problem behind this comment is that this man doesn't view women as full human beings. We are wombs to be filled by men, we are objects to be purchased by men, we are usurpers to be taken down by men.
Any woman who interacts with this anonymous man socially is at increased danger of being raped even if she dresses and behaves modestly since he puts the responsibility for rape on the victim not the rapist. Any woman who marries this man is at an increased risk of domestic abuse.
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